by teddi » May 08, 2006 1:25 pm
To have more or not have more is a question we all wrangle with, well maybe not all but most.
Sometimes we have to make decisions that we won't have the children we thought we would because it's a matter of survival. It's a sort of like a no win situation... you feel guilt if you say "no more" and you feel guilt when you DO say "one more" and then ... your older child(ren) have no mom for a certain number of months, or you lose your job, or your finances are strained....
You are definitely not alone!
Teddi
Bert , 3/2000 HG#1, wk 6 - birth, GB removed @ 16wks
Chloe & Kaylie, 12/2004 HG #2, wk 7 - birth, pre-E/pancreatitis
~Angel babe~ March 2012
~ Baby Chuckles~ July 2013