Hello!
I am a surviving hb of an hg surviving dw. As much as going through hg is upsetting for the women, it's just as upsetting for the men having to watch their wives going through the nasuea, feeling miserable and not being able to do anything about it. The only thing I can say is that being as supportive as possible is just what wives need at this time, that is all you can do (well, in my case making several panicked phonecalls to her doctor at 2:00 in the morning made me feel pretty useful!!) most husbands are not doctors, but most husbands I know are very caring, and that is what you need to be. It is a very lonely time for both of you, but once it is all over (at week 12-13) you will both be happy you went through it together. Knowing that you are there for her, can make a big difference. As I am writing this my wife is playing with our 2 1/2 year old son, who is anxiously waiting for me to finish, so HE can get on the internet to look at pictures of cars. I guess this is as good a time as any to break. Good Luck!!