Any one else felt like this??

[macsmommy]

Ok I could be crazy Im willing to admit that but has anyone else ever felt just so bitter at DH they could scream?? He said that he needs time to relax and take a time out, I understand that 100%. So this week I let him stay close to work so he didn't have the hour commute and could get some good sleep, well EVERY night that he has been there he has been out at the Casino until 12 or 1, WTF that isn't relaxing. He says that is how he unwindes. I called him last night and started this HUGE fight, I said if I have to feel like poop all the time you should too. I know, I know, that isn't really nice but I just don't know what to say. Would his actions bother anyone else???
HELP
Mel

[IslandDreamer]

Hi Melissa,

Sorry he's being icky. Feel free to be pissed off and jealous. You're sick and he's out. Not fair at all. I'd have definitely yelled. Heck, I yelled at my husband for going to work, going to church meetings, mowing the lawn. And he yelled at me for being sick . (My best yell is from when I was psychotic after Chris and he pissed me off by demanding something stupid and I said, "I think I may have to kill you," and I meant it )

Your family is in a very stressful situation. All you can take is what you can take. Be gentle with yourself.

My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

[OldMom]

Melissa,

Shoot, I get short and cranky with my husband, and he is being an almost perfect angel! If he were doing anything like your husband, who knows what kind of fireworks would fly around here!!!!

Main this is, forgive yourself, know you can only handle just so much, and it isn't your fault!!!!!