Ok, this post really is not about which is better formula or breastfeeding.
I have noticed a great deal of friction here on the BF forum.
During my PG I can not stress how much the her.org site and the HUGS board had helped me. I am so incredibly greatful. Maybe it is just me, but I do not remember so much tension o/ at the HUGS board. It always seemed to be about supporting eachother during our difficult time and offering personal as well as professional insight.
I can completely understand the passion woman feel re breastfeeding and getting the word out. While this is a breastfeeding forum I dont know that it is a good idea to be critisizing formula companies or woman opting to use formula for whatever their reason...and yes their has been some direct comments on woman using formula. I am not defending formula companies, but more so am trying to be mindful of the feelings of woman who had already been through more than enough hell and probably uncomfortable feelings of being judged for being so sick and taking meds while pg. I think we all should know better...especially with all we have had to deal with having HG. Gosh, how many of us felt people looking down of us for making the choice to take all of the meds we had to take to get through pg. I have heard so many times...I cannot believe so and so would take unisom during pg...or ativan or steroids. Now we know we had to take those meds and why we had to take them....but we at least had other woman to support our decision to take our meds and get through an awful pg. Lets just try to be more supportive and respectful of our decisions weather we breastfeed or ff.
And if we want to express our opinions on our decision...great. Lets try to repect others opinions. If someone says something offensive....keep in mind it is an ONLINE forum and very easy to misinterperate things. Also one other thing to keep in mind...and this was something a WONDERFUL HUGS member had to remind me of from time to time. HORMONES HORMONES HORMONES!