Offering a little hope....

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Offering a little hope....

Postby mandy » Nov 07, 2006 4:46 pm

Hoping I am not speaking too soon here...

I've read a few posts where people are wondering if they will ever feel peace with stopping their family short of what they always thought they would have. Well, people who know me here, are aware of the struggle I've had with this, but I have moved on from the umming and ahhing, and I am very happy with my lot. I truly see the advantages of having what I do have and life is good.

A year back I couldn't have said that. Three years back I would have argued that things could never be that way for me. I have moved on and actually feel passed the baby-making part of my life now. I didn't have the third and it's too late (for me) and that's ok. Life is good.

Wishing you all peace in your decisions.

Mandy x
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Postby bibliojo » Nov 07, 2006 6:19 pm

Thank you Mandy. You have given me some hope that I will be content one day with the two and not bitter at HG for robbing me of the decision to have a third.

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Katya - October 2006

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Postby BrandiJK » Nov 07, 2006 6:45 pm

Blessings to you Mandy! May it be so for everyone. Thank you for sharing.
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Postby krdoty » Nov 14, 2006 5:12 pm

Thank you, Mandy. It helps to hear you say that.
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