Ugh, Jenny, I am so right there with you. My DH told me that he actually shed a couple tears on his way home the other night because the thought of no more little ones just got to him. I don't know what I would do if he came right out and said, "Amy, I WANT another baby." No, that's not true, I know just what I'd do. I'd run screaming to the doctor and ask them to shoot me up with hormones to make my pg stick...and I'd ask for every HG drug out there. In all actuality, DH has been the voice of reason regarding children through our entire marriage. We waited to have the first one because we were very young. We waited to have the second (whom I begged and pleaded for) because HG had shocked us beyond all get out and devastated us financially. We waited to have the third because we were still very afraid and still financially devastated. Our fourth was DH's "one shot in the dark." He made that decision on his own one night without asking my approval (he didn't need to, I'd been begging him for years for another baby). So, now we have the definite that HG will strike and the not so definite that the baby will stick. Man, I know what we have decided is logical but it is not at all what my heart wants. Absolutely not at all. So, sister, I am holding your hand....shedding tears with you, mourning with you, and trying to look forward with you.
Amy