No More For Me Moderators

[mandy]

Hi,

I am sure many of us have mixed emotions as we approach this folder. A little bit about me...

I always planned to have four children but after having just two, I find myself here. It has taken a lot of soul searching, a lot of tears and many, many conversations to bring me to a place where I accept I am limiting my family. I have experienced frustration, anger and have certainly mourned those children that I will never have.

It's now been five years since the birth of my youngest child and I feel much happier with my decision. I don't think I will ever feel good about it but I no longer go round and round in circles putting senarios and what-if's in my head. One of the biggest things that has helped me has been talking to people here in this folder. People who understand. People who are in the same place.

Mandy x