Why is it so hard to make that decision. I had the option of a TL with my last c-section but thought there no point as I'd still have to take the pill to control the endo. And the pill has always worked well for me. However the last few months there have been days when I've forgotten to take it.
A couple of weeks ago someone said, as Beth and I were playing with her newborn, that I could take him home if I liked (jokingly of course). I didn't even hesitate to say no thanks, I'm done. Where as while back I would have said sure.
So I KNOW I'm done. I do not want to do another pregnancy, HG, c-section or the whole newborn thing. Ok there's the odd time when I think maybe. Though there was one time when I thought maybe I was pg. My prayer was "God if you've let me get pg then don't let me have HG, no SPD, no loss, no other complications, and a baby even easier than Adam (if that's possible), if not then don't let me get pg!" Not the best prayer but I know you all understand.
Anyway, I'm supposed to having more surgery soon (abdominal) and thought of asking for a TL at the same time (would prefer a hyst but the surgeon doesn't think I need it at this stage). However if he said yes to doing a TL I'm really not sure if I could go through with it.
I can't work out why I'm struggling to do anything permanent in me when I'm 100% sure I'm done. Yet I'd be fine for Dh to have a Vas. Why is this?