Thank you so much ladies. I really appreciate your feedback. I was beginning to feel like I was the only one with these fears about getting pregnant again after the the snip.
Pamela,
I really like your comments and thinking regarding pregnancy post procedure. I spoke with DH about it and we agreed as well. He is going to get the procedure done and hope for the best. If God intends us to have another child after his procedure, then I will have to endure the complications that come along with one of my pregnancies. Only God knows what is meant to be... Thanks again.
Robin,
Thank you for your reply. It has been a huge comfort to speak with you regarding the additional complications I endured during my last pregnancy. High blood pressure on top of HG was not fun but it was nice to know that someone could share their experience and knowledge with me. It is also nice to know that you and your DH were in a very similar as my DH and I. Thank you so much for sharing your story with me. It has really helped me know that I am not alone.
Clare,
You and your DH conceived as fast as DH and I. It only took two tries with DD and only a few more to conceive DS. This is another concern for me as well. I am really blessed that we conceived as fast as we did but with that also comes the concern of an oops. I just cannot risk that again.
I also agree with the pill comments. I did not realize that it was not normal to feel so sick with the pill until after I got pregnant and found this board. It would make a wonderful study to know if that could be a precursor to HG?
We are slowly settling in here as a family of four. DS does good with DD but he does manage to slip in a few hits, a scratch and even fed her a marshmellow (that I had to dig out of her mouth
). I know that he does not understand that it is not ok to express himself like this and I have to make him sit down once he does these things. He says "sorry" to his sister then gives her a hug and a kiss. I have to watch them both very carefully. Once you feel better, we have to meet someplace. It would be wonderful to meet another "true HGer". How about the Indy Zoo? We have passes that I can bring two extra people without any cost to them (unless you have passes for yourselves?) I am not sure if you could tolerate the smells but if so, it would be a fun trip. Does Rory like the zoo? My DS loves it. I cannot wait until I can take DD out there as well. Only a couple more weeks until we can go in public again
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Thanks again everyone. You have helped me to realize that yet again, I am not alone with my thoughts and feelings.