Well, its done

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Well, its done

Postby Proudmama » Aug 30, 2006 1:53 am

DH had the snip last week. Part of me is sad but the other part of me is really relieved. I know that I cannot have any more babies at the risk of not being here to raise the two wonderful blessings that I have but I am still a bit sad. I am proud of DH for having this done though.
Jamie
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Postby allym » Aug 30, 2006 3:28 pm

Hi Jamie

I know how you feel. My husband had the big V in May and he was so scared. I told him he was going to a very lonely man if he doesn't get it done. I just couldn't risk going through hg again, but I have to admit I was sad too. It is just so final that that phase of your life is over. And I probably would have considered one more if it wasn't for hg. I so know how your feeling. Take care

Alexandra
Conner (severe hg) April 8, 1996
Jacob - (no hg) March 25, 1999
Isabella - (mod hg) March 10, 2006
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Postby Proudmama » Aug 31, 2006 4:04 am

Alexandra,

Thank you so much for the reply. It means a lot to know that someone else feels the same way that I do. I keep having these moments of, "oh, just to have one more", but then reality sets in and I know better.

:hugs:
Jamie
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