Its offical!

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Its offical!

Postby nomore » Sep 02, 2006 10:21 am

Thats right, we got the call yesterday. Its offical. DH has had 2 negative semen anaylsis done, and he is now considered STERILE! :) (Im jumping up and down doing the happy dance).

Ok, now to just get over the fear that the tests are really correct :oops: :roll:

And to share personal info, Im really hoping that since pregnancy isnt an issue now, I can go back to really enjoying sex the way I did before I ever knew HG existed.

:)
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Postby PamelaRose » Sep 02, 2006 10:59 am

That's great! It took me a full year to truly relax and stop obsessing that I'd still somehow get pregnant, so don't be surprised if your mind still goes there every month.
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Postby Atsie » Sep 02, 2006 12:31 pm

WooHoo!!!

Have fun tonight :wink:
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Postby emily » Sep 02, 2006 4:51 pm

Yay! One of my best friends got pregnant a couple years after her dh's vas. He had all the follow up and stuff done but stuff grew back together or something crazy!!! I will never feel safe!! Well, maybe after menopause ;)
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Postby mandy » Sep 03, 2006 4:53 pm

That's great that you have the all clear now Robin. I hope that with each passing month you relax more and more.

You now have a pass to spontaneity, just have to find the energy now huh?! :wink: :D

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Postby nomore » Sep 03, 2006 9:26 pm

LOL at the energy comment... isnt that the truth :wink:

Dh and I were just discussing follow up exams... he keeps insisting since he has "hardware"- acutual metal clamps, and since they removed over 4 inches of "tubing"on each side of them, it will NEVER be possible to get prego. Im asking him to humor me with a yearly follow up test. Doesnt seem TOO unreasonable no? He says the only way Im getting prego is if I have sex with someone else...lol (NOT gonna happen!!!!). Alas.... at least he feels comfortbale about it..lol :) ll get there eventually!
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Postby PamelaRose » Sep 03, 2006 11:04 pm

Our daycare mom worked in a clinic pre-kids and tells the story of a guy who swaggered in for a vasectomy and went off proudly telling the world that there would never be any more kids, that he could fool around and would certainly know his wife had been fooling around if she got pregnant. Surprise, surprise - she got pregnant, and it turned out that the guy never went in for his second follow-up test. They discovered he had 2 sets of vas tubes and only one had been snipped - OOPS! :P
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Postby Natalie » Sep 04, 2006 8:35 am

Great news Robin and don't listen to the stories above- they are very rare!!!!

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Postby _Laurie » Sep 04, 2006 10:03 am

Yay, Robin! That's so exciting!

"HG-worry"-free sex sounds wonderful!
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