I heard my own voice last night.....don't you just hate it when that happens. I sounded like a whinnig co-dependant. Someone I was many years ago. I was saying "I'm here all day with these kids trying to do dishes and laundry, and your out in the world doing interesting things and talking to interesting people, and I wait all day for you to come home and when you do, all you want to do is eat and watch Star Trek" blah blah blah.......
UGH....I don't want to be this person. I've been so sick for so long,(I'm at week 35) and I feel like my muscles have turned to jello and I have no energy. I've rid myself of so many people in my life as I'm not really tolerant of remarks like "Maybe next time you'll be careful what you wish for"
I want to be my independant self again. The woman who doesn't depend on other to make her happy. The woman who brightens others days, the one whose kids admire her for her energy and spirit.
I need to fix alot of stuff and I feel like recognizing this was a big first step. Today I'm going to town to pick up the things I usually ask my husband to pick up on his way home from work, and then I think I'll take the kids to the park. When I get home I'm going to brush one of my horses.
Thanks for listening.