A few weeks ago, I became a "buddy" to one of the ladies here posting on the forum and we chatted at least once a week just to check on each other and talk about some options of trying to get out of feeling so miserable. It was great and she seemed like such a great lady.
I won't put her name here out of respect (if she's ready to post again and share her story, fine but I'm really posting for me here). Well, not too long ago, I got a horrible e-mail from her telling saying that at almost 16 weeks, they couldn't find the heartbeat. Needless to say, she was devastated. I was devastated.
I'm worried about her but I also don't want to call her until she's ready to talk about it. I sent her an e-mail asking her to just let me know that she's ok when she's ready, I'll still be here for her.
I just can't get this out of my mind. I feel so sad and so badly for her. She went through so many weeks of hell to get to this point to know that she won't get what she endured so long and hard for.
I had heard that the statistics on when we can "safe" is totally different for HG women...it makes me worry everyday even though I will soon be moving past the first trimester.