Yes, I definitely think you ought to find a different doctor...preferrably at perinatologist or Maternal/Fetal Medicine specialist, but at least a high-risk OB. If you've had severe HG in the past, I think it would be worth it to find someone who knows a lot about HG management.
Please read the post at the top of this "Find a Physician" area...it has some ideas about ways to find a doctor. If you can give me the hospitals where you'd like to deliver, I'd be happy to search for some doctors. If you go to
http://www.smfm.org/index.cfm?zone=search&nav=doctor and type in your city/state/zip code, then it will provide you with a list of all Maternal-Fetal Medicine specialists in your area.
I know from experience how important it is to find a doctor who knows a lot about HG. And, there is a new post in the "Health Professionals" forums here which suggests that being proactive can dramatically lessen HG symptoms. I recently switched to a new perinatologist (due to an insurance switch), and she was happy to schedule a "pre-conception consultation" to discuss HG management. It was so nice to talk about how we would manage my HG before it happened! I wish every HGer could have such an appointment before conceiving a 2nd time.
Anyway, please let me know how I can help you. I definitely think it's worth your time and effort to find a doctor who will treat you as you ought to be treated!
- Anna