Hello Everyone,
I would like to share something that i learned in the early stages of HG. Sometimes its just OK. Its OK if i need to cook. Its OK that she doesn't do the laundry (if you need help to know how the machines work the ladies here can give us some instructions). Its OK that she doesn't feel well because I'm sure that if she had a choice this is not the way she would choose to feel. Its OK if she goes and lays down. Its all going to be OK.
There is more I would like to share. That feeling you get when your wife cries and begs for your help. It shows how much you desire to help. I hope that feeling never goes away. The simple truth is all you can do is hold their hair; hand them a wash cloth; and tell her you love her from the bottom of your heart, and you are there for them. I'm sorry that we can't do more.
If you would like to talk to someone E-MAIL me at
Neil_Myers@Bellsouth.net