by Ivydragon » Sep 10, 2004 9:49 am
As I near my 10th anniversary of my 1st HG diagnoses in early October this year, I can tell you that next year you will get that strong first smell of Autumn, and you will instantly remember HG, but it should only be one year. Enjoying Autumn this year will probably be brief for you, but it will probably be one of the joys that you can absorb this fall.
How much sick leave do you have saved up? Rest at home as much as possible. If it looks like you're getting dehydrated, get an IV, or take 1/2 or 1/4 of a Zofran starting now to see if you can stay more hydrated taking Zofran early. Don't wait until you first throw up. Even used w/ cancer patients, Zofran is found to be most successful at controlling vomiting if it is taken before the Chemotherapy session is even begun ~ for controlling the vomiting that comes after!
Try every hydration trick you know of. Slushy beverages, hot beverages, thicker ones, thinner ones, carbonated ones, flat carbonated ones, sips of liquid all day, goal markings on the side of your container, straws poked through saran wrap so you can't smell the liquid, high fluid fruits to snack on. Baths so you can absorb water through your skin, etc.
Dehydration plays havoc on several levels. 1. It perpetuates the vomiting cycle. 2. It makes you feel like you cannot cope, cannot survive, cannot endure. 3. It makes your Zofran less effective on your vomiting!
If you think you are getting dehydrated, go in for an evening or weekend IV before you get too low. When you are home you are to rest! Your job in life right now is to make a baby, and you have to work, too. Not an easy task! Do everything you can to do pretty much nothing else.
I have watched so many HGers in your shoes. Watched them try to hold back the wall of HG like a wave that is coming to crash down upon you. It will either crash huge, or it won't. You are prepared, you are educated, you are knowledgeable. You have options. You have a good Dr. You have plans in place. If you worry too much, it will make the HG worse. It's like waiting for labor at the end. You know it's coming, but you'd rather just be in the middle of it than knowing it's coming. If HG was here, you'd endure, but waiting is almost worse.
Every day that HG hasn't hit is one more day closer to holding your baby that you don't have to vomit! You are already 6 weeks in, 34 weeks from holding a baby you can call your own. Take things one day at a time. Try not to be scared, try to be brave and patient.
Huge hugs, Andy
Mom to Aaron 14 (HG), Anna 11 (HG), Adam 8 (adopted), Andrew 8 (adopted), fostering a newborn . . .